Barkada get together

I'm so happy for getting the chance to see my friends again!! It's a comfort that after all this time we still mesh! Yup, mesh! Since high school it's obvious that each of us had our own likes and dislikes, we had different personalities but through it all... we all meshed...we went well together. Ok... there were times when things didn't turn out okay, i'd have chances watching fights between my friends take place and all... but through it all, i cannot seem to ignore the truth that we really are a group that would possibly go the distance together!

I miss these guys...and i dare put up our pics!! :P

Times of confusion

Yes... here i go again, i know i know...i'm such an idiot at times! I'm just confused... well, when am i not confused?? Even i wonder. Anyway... i was wondering if Yuri meant everything he'd said that night not so long ago... wow, i make it sound like some fairytale... my bad... i hate that because i know life is far from being one. Hay, its bullshit! Life can be such a chore most of the time... but living, somehow... i don't know, there are times i'd rather be lying dead cold than live... but then again, there are really times worth living for. Anyway, back to the topic at hand... ok,i was wondering if Yuri meant what he said about wanting me back, the wondering had been caused by a long overdue communication between us, a simple txt would have been fine... but nothing, really! for the longest period of time, nothing! So i wondered... ok... questioned almost everything, but it s his fault! So, fed up as i was, i ym him yesterday asking him where i stand then shut the computer off, i got my answer this morning... hay... its a wonder how that guy can make me smile even through everything... i don't know how he does it... i hate it sometimes but there's no denying that he has some obvious effects on me... am i really still that in love with him?? Oh well... no choice but to accept the possibility that i am still that deeply in love with him.

My time...

Have i finally found my salvation? Was it a dream or did i find myself finally seeing the silver lining after such a long time spent under the coldness of gloom? Did last night's conversation really mean what i think they meant... or am i dealing myself another downfall?? Can i trust him? Can i give him the love that I'd kept bundled up after such a painful break? Is this the right thing to do?

Last night, Yuri called me... i was surprised that he did, i was in the middle of txting Jessie when he called... i had to think twice before i answered the phone... some part of me held back, because of what i never did dwell on... maybe it was fear or it was some kind of hesitancy brought about by disbelief... i don't know... But i did hesitate but then i answered the phone after 5 rings i think. The conversation began with checking in on how the other is dong in their school life, thesis and all that, but then a sudden silence fell when he spoke up, he told me to be quiet for a while and i did... that was when he told me everything. He explained a lot of things and i found myself crying and laughing in the background silently... I could not help but remember those days, those times when i fell under such a depression stage, those days that i spent on my bed crying, wondering as to what and where i went wrong... wondering why i wasn't enough to satisfy him... why he left me after everything I've done. After everything, he stopped, he apologized and all and i found myself laughing... hay, i couldn't count how many time he said "really" over and over again. I told him my side... crying as the memories washed back more forcefully this time... i told him almost everything, i couldn't really tell him everything cause i didn't know how to express everything... i couldn't really... I was close on revealing that i still loved him but i stopped myself, besides... he didn't say anything, i wasn't about to open that up yet. He asked me if he had a chance to win me back and i told him that he had always had a chance... he just didn't take it... and that was what hurt me more all those days. He asked me to not give him a hard time... but i guess its only his due... lets see how well he'd fair...:P It's my turn...:P I won't give him a hard time... much... but i guess its my turn to have some fun...:P I love him but... getting me back is something i would have him work for this time.

Foolish Heart...

I'm such an idiot!!

TEAR MY HEART OUT PLEASE!! as time goes by the things he does makes me hurt more... Why can't i just let go?! Why?!! I'm getting desperate... even though how much i try to forget him, even though how much i think that i've gotten over him i keep longing for him... Can't i just get the point that it's over?! Why?! I don't feel like myself anymore... i don't feel like steph anymore... I'm such a wreck now... I hate him for doing this to me but i still love him... I love him and hate him...

I'm lost... I'm beyond lost...

I just smile and smile, i laugh and laugh but the more i portray happiness, the more i seem carefree, the harder it becomes for me... i want to cry but i can't... i can't seem to be able to... I want to cry... i wnat to scream... i want to just hate him fully, but love still remains... I'm just so tired now... I'm stressed out and it has definitely affected my health... my mom sees it, every morning and every night... I can't stay this way... can someone help me through this?? I know many have already lended me their support but it just isn't helping... nothing is... i'm getting worse... I don't even care about my health anymore... I just don't care, i force myself to care... but that's pointless... I can't do this anymore. If only... TEAR MY HEART OUT.... END THIS!

Why was it so easy for him to leave?

Need i ask? The answer has already been given... and i guess i can't take that against him but it was soe hard to understand why he lost all feelings for me...

Last night we had visitors over for the night... and this debate striked up between my dad, ninong and my mom and tita... both women against the men, the children, specifically me, mike and maki just sat at the side amusing ourselves at the flow of the conversation, our opinions we kept to ourselves for the moment, it was hard getting in but our reactions were heard. Arrg! I had a hard time keeping in some of my more vocal reactions because my dad kept pointing out things so lightly that it was hard not explaining that it isn't that easy when you're in a situation that makes you hurt the most. He was lucky enough not to have gone through situations like being left behind because the girl had some other lover or had simply lost interest in him... he was lucky enough to have fallen in love with my mother and ended up happily married. Saying things like how easy it was so hard for people to accept that a relationship ended just by going on with life... but it isn't that easy, i being one of those people, i honestly say that it is far from being easy... it cost me more than heartache... and until now the pain still remains... for the memory never leaves me. You see years may pass but the memory will still remain and so will the pain. Time heals all wounds?? no... time only helps the process of moving on but the wound will always be there... the pain will never disappear, that is what i believe, even though how much we try to think that the pain will leave, it won't, we only learn how to cope with it.

Being human, we feel, that is our curse... we feel as well as dwell on the hurt. We dwell on each emotion we have, dwell on each experience... we think, that is what makes us human.

My heart has a mind of its own

Yes... my heart does have a mind of its own. It shouldn't be so... i should be logical, then and only then would i surpass this problem. I have hoped for an escape route from this box i fell into that day when i gave my heart away. Even then i wanted to free myself from a tangle of emotions that i thought i wouldn't have felt if only i stayed intact. You see what regret is... its a poison that will forever, it would seem, to stay with me until the time when i find myself climbing out of the cage. When that will be still remains a mystery and a future i look forward to as well as fear.

I have cast aside shame

enveloped love in my arms

I have thrown away pride

shrowd myself in sorrow

Farewell to sanity

I linger in vastness

Leaving my tomorrow

to uncertainty...

Damn him!

Tell me I'm wrong when i say that he's being unfair... because he is! I'm tempted to just go up to him and tell him to stop messing around with his bullshit because right now... i feel as if i'm being played for a fool. I don't want to be in the shadows anymore...i don't want to wonder if i should have done something more or if i shouldn't have made a move at all. I'm no mind reader! I'm far from being godly or anything close to that! I'm your average human being without any telepathic talent that would be able to help me understand what he's thinking! Damn it! I don't like this feeling anymore... it leaves me lost and unsure of my next moves... i can't even face him, can't even be near him without feeling the urge to touch him... to try and renew the old feelings that i still crave for. To feel him... damn it but i still love him... if its so easy to erase everything i would have... if its as simple as flicking off the switch then i would have reached inside me and just tear out the switch. I don't want this anymore... i want him to stop playing around... if he wants me back, then why won't he just take the chance, brave everything?! Am i not worth it? Am i not worth the pain, the fear and all?! What have i lacked? Am i wrong in thinking that his words meant something more?!

I'm just hoping for an end to this... its either we get back together or i move on... god... make it the first!